It’s What You Don’t See
To raise awareness about family violence and its impact on Aboriginal children we launched our #itswhatyoudontsee campaign on the 20th March 2018. Led by the hashtag #itswhatyoudontsee, the campaign features four short videos that focus on one Aboriginal family and tells the story of family violence in the home and the impact it can have on the children in the family and their relationships in and outside the home. The stories were written by Aboriginal script writers and feature Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander actors who themselves have lived the impacts of family violence.
The impact of family violence on children and young people are complex. It can affect their behaviour, their development, their relationships, their emotions, their learning, their thoughts and their physical health. Experiencing violence in childhood also significantly increases the risk of being both a victim and a perpetrator of violence in adulthood.
The campaign also features an additional video, in which VACCA CEO Muriel Bamblett and Therapeutic practitioners Sue Anne Hunter and Graham Gee reflect on the four videos, the family’s experience of family violence and the interventions that are working for Aboriginal families.
As a child welfare agency, we know that almost 90% of Aboriginal children in care are there due to family violence, and there are many others who are not in care who nevertheless see, feel and are impacted by violence around them. VACCA provides men, women, children and adolescents a range of counselling, groups and case management across metropolitan Melbourne and Gippsland as well as crisis accommodation services for Aboriginal women and their children (Gippsland only). If you want to find out more or have any questions you can find our contact information here.
It is vital that we raise awareness in the community about the effect violence has on people – whether it is physical or not. We encourage you to share the videos and spread the message.
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If you or anyone you know is in immediate danger – please call 000 now.
Want to know more?
You might wonder ‘what is family violence?’ Family violence is sometimes called different names such as “domestic violence” or “abuse”. It is important to acknowledge that family violence is not part of Indigenous culture.
The Victorian Indigenous Family Violence Task Force defined family violence as: ‘An issue focused around a wide range of physical, emotional, sexual, social, spiritual, cultural, psychological and economic abuses that occur within families, intimate relationships, extended families, kinship networks and communities. It extends to one-on-one fighting, abuse of Indigenous community workers as well as self-harm, injury and suicide.’
If you’re worried about a family member or friend
Family violence is common in Australia and it may impact on you or someone you care about.
If you are worried that a friend or family member might be experiencing family violence, you could find a safe time to sit with them to yarn about your concerns.
Some helpful things to talk about might include how to keep them safe or showing them this webpage so they can find professional support.
If you want to find out more ways to support your friend or family member, you can contact 1800 RESPECT (1800 737 732) for a confidential yarn.
They will be able provide you with helpful information and support you in deciding what to do next.
Impact of family violence on children and young people
The impacts of family violence on children and young people are complex.
It can affect their behaviour, their development, their relationships, their emotions, their learning, their thoughts and their physical health.
Some things you might notice in a child or young person could be:
- Poor concentration, aggression, hyperactivity, disobedience, disturbed sleep/nightmares, withdrawal, low self-esteem, showing no emotion (spaced out), always on edge, wary, fantasize about normal home life, pessimism about the future and physical symptoms
- Self-blame, helplessness, grief, fear, dread, terror, worry, sadness, shame, anger & numbness
- Depression, anxiety & withdrawal
Experiencing violence in childhood is a significant risk factor for being both a victim and a perpetrator of violence in adulthood.
If you are a professional and want to understand more
As a professional it is important that you adapt a holistic healing approach to understanding and responding to family violence in Indigenous communities.